In my experience the number one problem for people having a problem is that they’re too focused on their problem. So much thought goes into the thinking of their problem. And often this makes the problem disproportionately bigger than it actually is.
When you focus on the problems you risk getting stuck in what WAS … Stuck reporting on things … Rather than being the creator of, or a contributor to change.
More energy is spent on arguing and debating right and wrong. And you risk getting stuck in a solution-less state entertaining personal and subjective opinions.
What I’ve discovered helps with getting to the solution the quickest, is for each party to become aware of what they need in order for things to be OK again.
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